The Incomparable Joy of a Good Slutty Season

Zola—yeah, that Zola—thinks you (and, hell, everyone) ought to have a slutty phase. [ view in browser.     add cosmopolitan@email.cosmopolitan.com to your address book ]             FOLLOW US       The Incomparable Joy of a Good Slutty Season   Have a slutty phase. Please. It builds character. My slutty phase was when I learned about myself sexually, intellectually, and spiritually. Without it, I wouldn't be as sure of myself or as confident as I am today. I tell people I'm a self-proclaimed hoe and I'm fine with that. It's my way of letting them know I don't give a shit about what they're about to say. Just save it. In my early twenties, after getting engaged at 19, I realized that it's okay to date for fun. I had to unlearn this idea that I was dating to marry. That's something I struggled with before but I think I've finally gotten it together. I don't have to say, "I can't be your girlfriend if I don't see the rest of my life with you." Like, ew, no. Why not? I can date you for this season and that's okay. Whatever I'm meant to get out of this experience is what I'll get. READ ON       Bella Hadid Pairs a Bustier Top With Pelvic-Cutout Jeans in London   Bella was a walking thirst trap for a day out in London with her boyfriend, Marc Kalman. 🔥🔥 Read On         Your Horoscope for the Week of August 22   Everything you need to know for the upcoming week. Read On         Ariana Grande's Latest IG Photo Dump Is a Treasure Trove of Rare Married Life Pics with Dalton Gomez   Dove Cameron accurately summed it up with her comment: "🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺" Read On         Gabrielle Union, 48, Dazzles In An Upside-Down String Bikini Top In A New IG   Bod? Toned. Bikini hack? On point. Read On         Rihanna Wore a Crystal-Covered Slip on a Night Out in L.A.   Dare we say it—she shined bright like a diamond. 😏 Read On     Unsubscribe | Privacy Notice/Notice at Collection   ©2021 Hearst Magazine Media, Inc. All Rights Reserved. Hearst Magazines, 300 West 57th Street, New York, NY 10019